Making Your Relationship The Most It Can!

Hello,

Today I want to talk to you a little bit about how you can make the most of the relationship you have. Let me begin by saying that a relationship needs to have a solid foundation of friendship for long-term survival.

That is important because life has a way of throwing us curve balls. When that happens we will want to have the support of our partner. A friendship helps to insure that our relationship will survive those curve balls.

But as time goes on we often find that our relationship is somewhat stale. So what can we do to liven it up - to get it back where it used to be? Let me say that I believe finding the hidden spark can easily be done if you go back to the basics.

Remember how the relationship started. Consider what your initial attraction was and how you treated each other then. Take the time to really remember what it was like.

Go back to some of those behaviors. It may be that you used to call your partner daily while you were away from home. Why not do that again? Or how about writing a note or a card that expresses your heartfelt desires for your relationship.

Plan a few special times together. You could have a special night out or even make a weekend of it. Spend some one-on-one time. Focus on your partner.

By making your relationship a priority you will find that it becomes alive again! Enjoy what you have. Continue to give it the love and attention required to keep it growing! Make it a lifelong event!

Best of luck - Talk Soon!!

Debbie C. Allen