When your heart is broken all you want is a quick fix. Unfortunately a quick make up will not repair the broken relationship. Other steps have to be taken before you can start to put the relationship back together.
Living through a difficult break up can be awful. You lose sleep, you may lose weight or the opposite, and you may gain weight. Many times people seem to lose interest in almost everything, they are depressed and that is all that can be said.
So the burning question is how can you get your ex back and how can you do it quickly; in a step by step fashion! The good news is that there are ways to make up with ex lovers but the bad news is that the work starts with you.
I know you want to get to the heart of this article so here are the five steps:
1) Get yourself in order
2) Get your home life in order
3) Assess your relationship
4) Considering your ex and his or her preferences develop your plan
5) Enact your plan
Number one is referring to you taking care of yourself. I know it is probably the last thing on your mind right now but now more than ever before it is important that you look and feel your best. Take care of you so that you can follow these steps.
Now that you are looking good it is time to get your life back in order. Start by cleaning your house. Yes, I know that sounds silly but trust me, it is all part of the bigger plan. You see, the better you feel about things the more confidence you will have and a lot will depend on your confidence.
You are already on step three. How easy is that; okay, you really do not have to answer that question. This step can take a little time because you truly need to be objective. Think about your relationship as if you were a stranger looking in at it. Write a description of what they might see. Describe the type of partners each of you are as well as any other details.
From there you can add your own perspectives. Really take your time with this. Remember that this is only a tool; it is meant to help you discover any shortcomings in the relationship and things that you may have missed before.
Now you are ready to develop a make up plan. Obviously you know your ex very well. Using that information combined with what you learned in step 3 you should create a plan that tailor made for you and your ex. Keep the following points in mind when constructing your plan:
1) Do not expect overnight results
2) Always focus on the interests of your partner when creating the plan
3) Do not be pushy
4) Your goal is to develop a slow but steady foundation for a solid future
5) Focus on the friendship first
You should now be ready to move forward with your plan. For ideas and specific techniques you can read the ebook called The Magic Of Making Up. I wish you all the best!!!
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