Sometimes It's The Small Things That Are Big!

I was spending some time with my husband earlier today - we sat down together to watch a movie. With all the channels we have we still could not find a movie that sounded interesting or that we had not seen. He like action and science fiction and I like romance and drama. it's really hard to find a movie that we both want to watch! :)

John, my husband always hands me the remote and lets me choose. Not that he is always happy with what I want to watch - but he is willing to watch whatever I pick. We like to sit side by side on the sofa. We cuddle and I always grab a throw for my lap - I am one of those people that is always cold. John knows that so he will hold my hands in his to keep them warm.

I just left John to come and write this post and do a few things at the desk - but he is certainly on my mind. On a daily basis he does things for me - it's just a part of who he is. I am very fortunate to have a husband like John and I am even more fortunate to have realized that.

If you are in a situation similar; one in which your partner is kind and loving then take notice of that and let him or her know that you appreciate it. If you are guilty of not being as kind and loving as you should be, then acknowledge that and work to do a better job.

Little things really can make a big difference in a relationship. Sometimes those things are right under our nose and we miss them. Pay attention to what you give and what you receive. You can enhance your relationship without any great effort.