All throughout life we meet interesting people. Some touch our life briefly and others stay forever. Have you ever wondered why some relationships seem to last and other wither away? In fact, some last only for a moment, others die slowly, and some end abruptly. But what do you gain from those relationships that do not last?
I know there are times that you would claim those people were not worth having in your life because they brought sorrow, stress or trouble. But other people that you have left behind - or that have left you behind, brought good into your life.
If you really consider all things you are likely to say that all people that have impacted your life have done so in a meaningful way. Whether it was for the good or for some other purpose, if you use the interactions as lessons in life, all relationships are meaningful.
I know this sounds corny but it is true, life has a way of presenting us with lessons. Most of those lessons come from people around us. Either we can listen and learn or we can go on making the same mistakes again and again and feeling that we must be missing something. That feeling is usually correct - and what we are missing is an appreciation for what we can be learning along the way.
Personal development works hand in hand with creating a great relationship. If you work at making yourself a better person in whatever way you can you are likely to develop traits that attract others. At the same time you are becoming more self confident in a way that enables you to get more out of life and relationships.
The old saying, "Live and learn" can be used in various situations but when it comes to relationships there may be no truer words. If the relationship is one that you want to last you will need to listen to what life is teaching you about others. Things like honesty and commitment are usually high on the list of important qualifications. These are characteristics that can be learned. The more you practice them the more natural they are to you. The same is true of having positive thoughts. If you make an effort to replace every negative thought with a positive one you are well on your way to becoming a more positive person.
While formal education has its place, the real lessons, the necessary ones can be learned through observance, interpretation, and practice. Life's lessons can be hard but they are always valuable. Take heed, incorporate the needed changes into your life and you as a person and your relationships will benefit!
1 comment:
Relationships are quite complicated one has to face when in trouble, but it's also not as bad as one would be led to believe in it.Just try to brush away all those misunderstandings and believe in the fact of making-up that relationship all you have to do is to start knowing what really went wrong and what made two humans who loved each other in depth to part their ways, is it because of money mis-management or something else . You can always find the answer here.
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