How Would You Rate Your Relationship?

It seems that many of us work hard to get the man or woman of our dreams and then we feel our work is done. It is done because we have that person in our life. We can see them on a daily basis - we can sleep with them every night and we know what they are doing most of the time.

So as time goes on we are likely to take for granted the time we have with them. We tend to overlook some of the cute little things they say and do simply because it's not new to us anymore. As a matter of fact, we might notice that we are receiving the same or similar treatment from our partners.

At such a point we have two options, first, we can continue as we have been and allow things to work themselves out for better or worse, or second, we can be proactive and work toward improving our relationship.

Although the relationship may still seem fine at this point it is likely that there is an undercurrent waiting to cause real damage. Don't let that happen. Immediately begin working at making your relationship more exciting.

Consider the way things were in the early stages of your relationship and strive to get that back. Make phone calls to your partner during work hours just to say hello and that you love him/her. Leave little notes that will let him/her know you love them. Buy them small gifts for no reason at all. Pay attention to them when they speak. Plan special dates and surprises.

Okay - I am sure you get the idea. The point is that if you ignore the signs that your relationship is getting boring matters will only get worse.

Some couples are fine with a relationship that lacks excitement but if given the choice most would prefer a little sparkle and spice from time to time. Work on your sparkle today and you will have spice tonight!