Getting Past The Break Up And On To The Make Up!

After a break up of a relationship many people long for what they had back again. The good news is that in almost every situation, if the relationship is worth saving it can be saved. But the reconciliation cannot happen overnight.

You know the story, you feel the pain. You know the relationship had problems but the break up came as a surprise. It happens millions of times a day. Few people make it through life without getting their heart broken at least once, or twice. But where do you go from here, you know you need to move forward somehow.

First of all I am not writing this article for people that were in no-win situations or relationships that were abusive in anyway. But for people that lost out on love perhaps due to a simple misunderstanding that escalated to a major ordeal, or for people that let a great thing go stale; this article may hold some great advice for you.

So if you fall into one of those categories then you definitely need to keep reading. The first thing you need to do is take care of you. Yeah, I know that sounds like boring advice but it is constructive advice. Go take a look in the mirror and ask yourself the following questions:

1) Do you need to take care of any personal hygiene chores
2) Do you need a hair cut
3) Have you lost or gained weight since the break up
4) Do you have bags under your eyes from loss of sleep
5) Are you taking less care in your general appearance (clothing, make up, etc.)

If you answered yes to any of those questions then you need to address those issues right away. I am serious. I know that you have heard that no one can love you until you love yourself; so go show yourself some love!

Next you should take a look around your immediate environment. Ensure that you have not let your home become a wreck during your painful times. It is common for people to not only lose interest in caring for themselves during sad phases of their lives but also to lose interest in taking care of pets or their homes. Get things in order so that you are ready to move forward.

At this point you should be feeling better about things. As a matter of fact, some people decide that they feel so good they want to leave the past behind completely. But if that does not describe you then you are in a good position to work on the making up process.

The ebook "The Magic of Making Up" has saved thousands of relationships. I am sure you will find valuable and useful advice that will help you through this difficult phase - check out the sidebar for more information. I wish you all the best!