Get Your Ex Boyfriend To Call You; Use An Underhanded Approach

Getting in touch with an ex is not always easy. It seems that you are between a rock and a hard place; you want to talk to him but you do not want it to appear that you are chasing him or that you are desperate.

I know how it feels after a nasty break up when all you want is to hear the voice of your ex. You are longing to call him but at the same time you do not want to because you do not want to seem as if you are chasing him. But you cannot get him out of your mind! It is a vicious cycle!

You want him to call so badly! Well there is a way to get him to call. But it does take some planning. Do not worry though, this is a simple technique and it works almost every time!

Okay, first of all you need to set up a scenario in which you can thank your ex for something. It can be anything at all. Now this may not be for the person that plays it straight by the books so if that is you then you may want to stop reading now.

I suggest that you come up with a white lie. Okay, I know a lot of you do not want to lie and I do not usually like to lie either, but drastic times call for drastic measures! Your lie can be about flowers, your grass being mowed, your newspaper being brought up to your doorstep, snow being cleaned off your windshield, do you get the idea yet, what I am suggesting here is that you come up with something, anything that is not too major and if at all possible, it should be something that would have been in for your ex to do.

Believe it or not the lie is the hard part. Once you have a convincing lie all you need to do is leave an email, a text message or a voice mail that says you want to thank him. Now you of course want to say a little more than that. You want to be convincing. In your message mention that you were surprised and how much you appreciated what he did, but do not explain what it was; you do not need to be too specific, the point is to arouse his curiosity.

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